Relationship Lessons

I recently listened to a podcast discussing relationships, specifically marriage. It encouraged me to reflect on lessons I have learned in my marriage and relationship with my husband. We have been together 8 years and will be celebrating our 5th year of marriage this summer. Although we still have much more learning and growing, I thought I would share some different lessons I have learned along the way (aside from communication, compromise, trust, respect etc..)

I would love to know your marriage or relationship tips!

 

1.Know Yourself First

I think this is so important to any relationship. Know your value, find happiness within yourself, and be authentically you. Your significant other should enhance the life you are already living, not create it.

2.Give To Give, Love To Love

Give without the expectation of something in return, and show love to just show love. It will go a long way!

3.Encourage Interests, Hobbies, Passions

Be a cheerleader for your partner and value/respect what they are interested in.

4.Approach & Decide As A Team/Unit 

Honor your significant other’s opinion or input before making any big decisions. Work through things as a team and continue to work to be on the same page.

5.Be Open To Growth Individually & Collectively 

This is so important with each season and change of life. Continue to not only grow and evolve individually, but collectively .Strive to better yourself and the life you create with your spouse/significant other.

Blessings,

Jac

5 Tips To Stay Motivated

I recently started a new fitness program to finish out 2019 and I began thinking about how I stay motivated throughout the year. I truly believe motivation is only what gets you started. Forming habits and creating consistency is the secret sauce to continue anything you desire to have motivation in. I know the end of the year can be a hard time to maintain motivation, so I wanted to share 5 tips to end the year strong!

1.Know Your WHY

Whatever it is you desire, know WHY you are doing it. What is the driving force or reason it is important to you? Once you understand your why, you gain a new perspective and outlook on what you are trying to accomplish.

Why is exercise important in your life? Why do you want to create healthy eating habits? Why do you want to maintain a tidy/clean home? Why do you want to reach a business/career goal? Why is it important to take care of the “chores” or daily tasks?

2. Think BIG Picture

Whatever it is you are wanting to achieve, have a clear understanding of the big picture. Understand that things take time, and small consistent changes or tasks build up to the larger goal. Know that the work you put in daily will add up to something bigger!

3.Create Goals & Look At Them Daily

This is something I have really practiced this past year, and it has been a game changer for me. I have my goals listed in my gratitude journal that I look at daily, as well as my vision board that is my computer background. I created my vision board in Google PowerPoint so as I achieve something, I can check it off and have a constant daily visual or check-in. There really is something to seeing what you desire every day.

4.Have A Plan

Whatever you need motivation in, have a plan to get it done! For example, I like to follow specific workout programs to stay motivated and on track. I also follow a cleaning schedule every other week to take the guess work out. Anything I need to get done or want to accomplish I write it out and set a time to get it done. Make a plan, stick to it, and hold yourself accountable!

5.Create Habits & Build Consistency 

Once you have created a habit, you no longer will need that initial motivation you felt to get you started. Consistency will get you the results you are looking for and pay off! Continue to allow yourself grace and take those small daily steps you are in control of!

 

Bonus: Do Things With A Joyful Attitude

Your outlook and perception of things can make a HUGE impact on your motivation. This year I have really tried to maintain a joy filled and positive mindset on all things, including those I am not that thrilled about doing. It gives me a reality check and brings me back to my WHY. Things I think about…

I am so lucky I get to use and strengthen my body. What a gift it is to have my health!

I am so fortunate to have a home to take care of and set the tone and environment for our family.

What a blessing it is to have so many resources available at my fingertips. I am so grateful to go to the doctor and seek a professional…I am so grateful to be able to pick up a hot meal for my family….I am so grateful to buy food and fill our home with healthy options..I am so grateful for 2 vehicles that take us where we want to go…..I am so grateful for AC, plumbing, electricity, internet, etc…

What a gift it is to have all of this laundry to clean because I am surrounded by family and people I love, and we never have to go without…

What are some ways you stay motivated? I would love to know!

Blessings,

Jac

Full Day of Eating: Mom Edition

I don’t know about you, but I love knowing what other people eat throughout the day. I am always trying to find new ideas or recipes for our family to try. I shared an example day of eating for my toddler and husband. You can find them here….Full Day of Eating: Toddler Edition & What My Husband Eats In A Day.

I thought I would share what a “typical” day of eating looks like for myself. Of course, all three of us change our go to snacks and meals depending on the season and what we are into at that time. I will note that with nursing I added in another meal or larger snack to keep my calories and food intake up! I also drink 80-100 ounces every day!

What are some of your current favorites? I would love to know!

Example Day of Eating

Pre-Breakfast: Water & Black Coffee

Breakfast: Smoothie & Trail-Mix (Summer Smoothie & Favorite Smoothie)

Smoothie 2

Morning Snack: Bar (currently enjoying Power Crunch & Oatmega)  & Fruit

Lunch: Salad

Salad

Afternoon Snack: Energy Balls (Recipe )

This varies the most for me. 

Balls

Dinner: Different Every Night/Week.

Check out our food Instagram for inspiration and ideas! @Bridwell_wellness

Dinner

Sweet Treat: Dark Chocolate Chips or Yogurt

Sweet

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Hope you enjoyed!

Blessings,

Jac